Sesibuyile isikhathi sesikole futhi siyazi ukuthi abazali balungiselela unyaka omusha oneziqalo ezintsha. Ukuqala konyaka omusha kuvame ukuhlangana nengxube yenjabulo kanye nokukhathazeka okuncane, njengoba abafundi nabazali bebheke phambili kumakhono amasha nolwazi, kodwa futhi ungase uzizwe unovalo mayelana nezinqubo ezintsha nezilindelwe.
Ungakhathazeki, Finyelela lapha ukuze usize! Kulo nyaka, sine 5 amathiphu aphezulu okuqala kahle konyaka wesikole.
- Thola Ukunethezeka Ngohlelo Lwezifundo
Ukuqonda ukuthi isikole sengane yakho sibhekana kanjani nemfundo, yiluphi uhlelo lwezifundo abalusebenzisayo, yiziphi izinhlelo, futhi amazinga asetshenziswayo angaba nzima kwabangewona othisha. Ukuchitha isikhathi esincane usuku ngalunye ufunda okuqukethwe kuwebhusayithi yesikole sakho, izincwadi zezandla, nezinye izinsiza zingakusiza uzizwe uqiniseka ngokwengeziwe ekuqondeni lokho ingane yakho ekufundayo esikoleni nokuthi ifunda kanjani. Kubalulekile nokuhambela amaseshini engane yakho abuyele esikoleni kanye neseshini yolwazi ukuze uqonde kangcono uhlelo lwengane yakho lulonke.. Iphinde ikunikeze ithuba elihle lokusungula ubudlelwano nothisha wengane yakho. Noma nini uma usenemibuzo, ungakwazi njalo ukuthumela i-imeyili kuthisha wengane yakho. Bakhona ngawe kanye nengane yakho, njengoba bazi ukuthi ubudlelwano obuhle nabazali buyindlela enhle yokuqinisekisa imfundo, social, kanye nempumelelo engokomzwelo kubo bonke abafundi.
2. Qiniseka ukuthi Ubamba Ama-Zzzz Anele Ngaphambi Kwama-ABC
Ukulala kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni nasekukhuleni kwengane, futhi ukuntula kungaba nomthelela omubi ekuphumeleleni kwengane ezifundweni. Empeleni, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ukonakala kokulala ezinganeni kungaholela emazingeni aphezulu okukhathazeka nokucindezeleka. Uma silala, ubuchopho bethu bucubungula ukwaziswa okuvela ngosuku lwakhe, ithola isistimu engcono kakhulu yokuyikhipha kuzinkumbulo, futhi ikhokhisa kabusha amasistimu ethu osukwini olusha. Ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene, abazali bavame ukuthola kunzima ukunamathela ngaphambi kokulala, kodwa ngohlelo olucacile, kanye nesikhathi sokulungiswa, kungaba lula! Izingane 3-6 iminyaka yobudala kufanele ithole 10-12 amahora okulala ngosuku, 7-12 abaneminyaka yobudala kufanele bathole 10-11 amahora ngosuku, futhi 12-18 abaneminyaka yobudala kufanele bathole 8-9 amahora ngosuku. Ukudala ishejuli lapho izingane zisheshe zilale kuzokwenza nasekuseni kube lula, ngethemba nokucindezeleka okuncane kubazali nezingane njengoba bezobe bephumule kahle futhi belungele ukuqala usuku lwabo!
3. Buza Imibuzo Efanele Ngesikhathi Esifanele
Ngezinye izikhathi abazali bamagange ukwazi ukuthi belunjani usuku lomntwana wabo ngokushesha nje lapho efika ekhaya evela esikoleni, ikakhulukazi phakathi namasonto ambalwa okuqala. Lawo maviki ayakhathaza kakhulu futhi agcwele ukwenyuka nokwehla njengoba ingane yakho ifunda ukuzulazula ezintweni ezintsha, abangani abasha, othisha abasha, nokulindelwe okusha. Ukubanika isikhathi sokuza ekhaya futhi banciphise ukucindezeleka kubaluleke kakhulu enhlalakahleni yabo engokomzwelo nangokwengqondo. Uma sebenesikhathi “sami”, abazali bangabuza imibuzo ethile esekelwe kulokho abakwaziyo ukuthi basebenzela kukho, uma kwenzeka bekwazi. Bangakwazi ukufunda idayari yengane yabo yomsebenzi wesikole wesikole kanye nabo futhi babasize benze icebo lokuthi bangawenza kanjani umsebenzi ngamunye., kanye nokuhlanganyela ekushisekeleni kwabo izifundo ezithile, izincwadi, noma ulwazi abalujabulelayo. Gwema ukubuza, “Bekunjani esikoleni? Ufundeni?” njengoba izingane ziphendula kangcono kakhulu emibuzweni eqondile, njenge, “Nenzenjani nabangani bakho ngesikhathi sokudla kwasemini? Iyiphi ingxenye engcono kakhulu yosuku lwakho? Iyiphi into exakile noma emangalisayo eyenzeke esikoleni namuhla?” Okubaluleke kakhulu, abazali kufanele babe khona ngokugcwele futhi balalelisise lapho abafundi bephendula, ngakho bazizwa bebalulekile ngempela futhi bezwa lapho behlanganyela.
4. Mabafunde Ekuhlulekeni
Lokhu kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuthi abazali bakuvumele. Sifuna izingane zethu zenze kahle futhi zifinyelele amakhono azo aphelele, okusho ukuthi singase senze isabelo ngasinye ngekama elinamazinyo amahle, ukulungisa konke ukungabala kahle noma iphutha lohlelo lolimi. Nakuba abazali benezinhloso ezinhle uma senza lokhu, sithatha amathuba okufunda abalulekile ezinganeni uma senza njalo. Emuva lapho singabafundi, abazali bethu abaningi babevame ukuba matasa kakhulu noma bengenalo ulwazi noma amandla okusisiza ngomsebenzi wethu wesikole, kodwa sithole indlela yokuphusha futhi sizame konke okusemandleni ethu. Uma izingane zinganikwa amathuba okufeyila zisencane, bangase bangavumi ukubhekana nezinselele kamuva ekuphileni ngoba besaba ukwehluleka kuzo. Nokho, lapho sibavumela behluleke ngobumnene, njengasemsebenzini noma emdlalweni omncane webhola lezinyawo, sibafundisa ukuqina. Akukona ukuphela komhlaba, futhi bafunda isifundo esibalulekile; ukuthi singazama futhi singaphumeleli, sizikhiphe uthuli, bese uzama futhi ngesikhathi esilandelayo.
5. Gqugquzela Imizwa Yabo
Iminyaka emisha yesikole iyisikhathi esijabulisayo ngenxa yezizathu eziningi, enye yazo ukuthi ihlinzeka izingane ithuba lokuthola inkanuko emisha. Uma benenhlanhla, bayokhubeka entweni abayithanda ngempela, nokuthi bangaheheka ngokwanele ukuba bachithe amahora amaningi bethola. Ukusiza ingane ukuthi ithole uthando lwayo akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi kuthatha isikhathi. Ngezinye izikhathi abazali bakhathazeka uma ingane yabo igxile kakhulu ezintweni ezimbalwa, futhi banomuzwa wokuthi badinga ukubadalula ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze babasize babe abantu abaphelele. Nokho, uma sibheka abantu abalolonge umhlaba wethu, kwakungenxa yokuthi babene-laser focus kulokho ababekushisekela. Kwakuyikho konke abake bakwenza noma bakwenza. Njengabantu, ngokwemvelo sidonsela kulokho esikuthanda kakhulu, futhi inqobo nje uma inikeza uhlobo oluthile lwenani phezu kokugcwaliseka, kufanele siqhubeke siphishekela. Ngakho, ungakhathazeki uma ingane yakho ibhikishela ukuya emsebenzini owodwa ngenkathi iphuma ngomnyango ukuze iye komunye. Mhlawumbe lowo abamthandayo ubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni nasekuthuthukeni kwabo, futhi abangamthandi akudingekile phela.
Sithemba ukuthi lawa macebiso asizile, futhi sikufisela wena kanye nengane yakho okuhle kodwa onyakeni wesikole ozayo! Siwuthokozele unyaka omusha wesikole nazo zonke izinselelo futhi sithemba ukuthi uzoziletha.
I-Reach Out izoba nawe ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngakho-ke bheka ulwazi olwengeziwe kanye nezihloko ezengeziwe esithemba ukuthi uzozithanda!
