Siyavuya ukwazisa iklabhu entsha yeencwadi zasehlotyeni, nje abazali! Ihlobo lelona xesha lifanelekileyo lokufunda incwadi obusoloko ufuna ukuyifunda, kodwa andinalo ixesha lokuba. Kweli hlobo, siyakumema ukuba ube kunye nathi ekufundeni Indlela yokuthetha ukuze abantwana bamamele kwaye bamamele ukuze abantwana bathethe.

Siyazi ukuba akusoloko kulula ukunxulumana nabantwana bethu ngenxa yeemfuno zesikolo, umsebenzi kunye nobomi bemihla ngemihla. Ngamanye amaxesha amaxhala ethu ngekamva ayasiphazamisa ekuphileni kwethu ngoku. Nangona kunjalo, enye into esinokuqinisekisa ngayo kukuba asisokuze silifumane elinye ithuba lokufumana ubuntwana nabantwana bethu, kwaye asifuni kuphoswa leli xesha lixabisekileyo. Ngoko, singalusebenzisa njani uninzi kwaye sibe neencoko ezinentsingiselo nabantwana bethu eziya komeleza ubudlelwane bethu kwaye zincede abantwana bethu bazive bexhaswe? Le yimibuzo emikhulu uninzi lwethu olunayo.

Ukuze siphendule le mibuzo ibalulekileyo, siyakumema ukuba ube kunye nathi ekufundeni eyona ncwadi idumileyo yabazali, ibhalwe nguAdele Faber kunye noElaine Mazlish. Indlela yokuthetha ukuze abantwana bamamele kwaye Mamela Ke Abantwana Baza Kuthetha, esifundisa indlela yokwamkela iimvakalelo zabantwana bethu, njengokuba singakwenzi oko sisenokuba sibangela ukuziphatha okubi singaqondanga. Kwakhona isifundisa iindlela ezintle zokukhuthaza intsebenziswano, ngokunjalo nokuzimela, ukuzimela, kunye nokuzithemba. Ezi zizo zonke izithako ezifunekayo ukunceda ukukhulisa ulwalamano oluhle lomzali nomntwana oluya kunceda ngokwenene ukukhulisa abantwana bethu babe ngabantu abadala abazithembileyo nabanobuchule..

Iza Kusebenza Njani?

Inyathelo lokuqala kukuqhagamshelana nomnye wabaCebisi bethu bezeMfundo ukuze ubhalise. Ubhaliso MAHHALA kwaye luvulekele wonke umntu! Siza kwenza incoko yeqela apho umxholo wesifundo sencwadi kunye nokwabelana kuya kwenzeka ukususela ngoJulayi 1st. Lindsey Fine, UMphathi wethu wezeMfundo, uzakujoyina iqela njengomzali ngokunjalo, njengokuba engumama wamakhwenkwe amabini, ubudala 4 kwaye 6, ngubani oza kufunda kunye nawe. Uza kube encedisa nasekukhokeleni iingxoxo zeveki nganye.

Le ncwadi inokufumaneka ngesiNgesi nangesiTshayina kwaye ifikeleleka lula ngokuprintwa, e-ncwadi, okanye iifomati zeaudiobook.

Zimbini ke iinketho zendlela ongathanda ukuthatha inxaxheba ngayo:

  1. Funda incwadi kunye nathi, ukugqiba izahluko ezabelweyo veki nganye. Siza kuthumela imibuzo yengxoxo kwiqela, kwakunye nokukhuthaza abazali ukuba babelane ngamava abo ekusebenziseni oko bakufundileyo nabantwana babo.

Uluhlu lokufunda luhamba ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

Iveki 1: Izahluko 1 & 2

Iveki 2: Izahluko 3 & 4

Iveki 3: Izahluko 5 & 6

Iveki 4 Izahluko 7 & Emva kwelizwi

  • Ukuba ukufutshane ngexesha kwaye awukwazi ukufunda kunye nathi, ungavele ujoyine iqela ukuze ufunde kunye nabanye abazali kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kwiingxoxo.

Ekupheleni kwenyanga, siya kubamba iworkshop ye-intanethi ekhokelwa nguMcebisi weSikolo, URegina Wehner. Kwiworkshop, URegina uya kwabelana ngolwazi olongezelelweyo kunye nezicwangciso onokuzisebenzisa ukomeleza ubudlelwane bakho nomntwana wakho.

Malunga noRegina Wehner

URegina Wehner nguMcebisi weSikolo esineLayisenisi osebenze nabafundi kwiSikolo esiPhakathi ixesha elingaphezulu 16 iminyaka. Ekuqaleni evela eUnited States, uhlala nomyeni wakhe kwaye 2 abantwana, iminyaka 10 kwaye 12, eBeijing, eTshayina.

URegina usebenza kwiWestern Academy yaseBeijing (WAB), isikolo samazwe ngamazwe esahlukileyo. Inxalenye enkulu yokuba ngumcebisi wesikolo kukunceda abafundi bafunde ngeziqu zabo kunye nabanye njengoko bekhula. URegina ukwaququzelela iParent Coffee Mornings qho ngenyanga ukuze ahlanganise abazali ukuze bafunde ngakumbi ngotshintsho ekukhuleni kwabantwana babo kunye nendlela yokunxibelelana ngala maxesha enguqu.

Qhagamshelana nathi namhlanje ukujoyina!