Ua hoʻi i ke kula a ʻike mākou ke mākaukau nei nā mākua no kahi makahiki hou me nā hoʻomaka hou. ʻO ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka makahiki hou e hui pū ʻia me ka hauʻoli a me ka hopohopo, ke kakali nei nā haumāna a me nā mākua i nā mākau a me nā ʻike hou, akā hopohopo paha i nā hana maʻamau a me nā manaʻolana hou.
Mai hopohopo, E kiʻi iā ia maanei e kōkua! I kēia makahiki, aia iā mākou 5 nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo kiʻekiʻe i kahi hoʻomaka maikaʻi i ka makahiki kula.
- E ʻoluʻolu me ke Kumu
E hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano o ke kula o kāu keiki i ka hoʻonaʻauao, he aha ka papahana a lākou e hoʻohana ai, he aha nā ʻōnaehana, a hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia nā maʻamau no nā mea hoʻonaʻauao ʻole. E hoʻolilo i ka manawa liʻiliʻi i kēlā me kēia lā e heluhelu i ka ʻike pūnaewele o kāu kula, puke lima, a me nā kumuwaiwai ʻē aʻe e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hōʻoluʻolu i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā mea a kāu keiki e aʻo nei ma ke kula a me ke ʻano o kāna aʻo ʻana. He mea nui nō hoʻi e hele i ka pō hoʻi i ke kula o kāu keiki a me nā kau ʻike no ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka papahana o kāu keiki holoʻokoʻa.. Hāʻawi ia i kahi manawa kūpono no ʻoe e hoʻokumu i kahi pilina me ke kumu o kāu keiki. I kēlā me kēia manawa inā he mau nīnau kāu, hiki iā ʻoe ke leka uila i ke kumu o kāu keiki. Aia lākou no ʻoe a me kāu keiki, ʻoiai ua ʻike lākou ʻo ka pilina maikaʻi me nā mākua he ala maikaʻi loa ia e hōʻoia ai i ka hoʻonaʻauao, pilikanaka, a me ka holomua o ka naʻau no nā haumāna a pau.
2. E hōʻoia i ka hopu ʻana i nā Zzzzs ma mua o nā ABC
He mea nui ka hiamoe no ka ulu a me ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki, a ʻo ka nele o ia mea hiki ke hoʻopōʻino i ka hoʻokō ʻana o ke keiki. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hōʻike ʻia ka noiʻi ʻana e hiki i ka hiamoe hiamoe i nā keiki ke alakaʻi i ka piʻi nui o ka hopohopo a me ke kaumaha. Ke hiamoe mākou, Hoʻoponopono ko mākou lolo i ka ʻike mai ia lā, ʻike ʻo ia i ka ʻōnaehana maikaʻi loa e waiho ai i loko o nā hoʻomanaʻo, a hoʻopaʻa hou i kā mākou mau ʻōnaehana no kahi lā hou. No nā kumu like ʻole, ʻIke pinepine nā mākua i ka paʻakikī i ka wā moe mua, akā me ka hana maʻamau, a me ka manawa no ka hooponopono, hiki ke maʻalahi! Nā keiki 3-6 e hiki mai ana na makahiki 10-12 hola hiamoe i ka lā, 7-12 pono e loaa i na keiki makahiki 10-11 hola o ka lā, a 12-18 pono e loaa i na keiki makahiki 8-9 hola o ka lā. ʻO ka hana ʻana i kahi papa manawa e moe mua ai nā keiki e maʻalahi pū kekahi, manaʻolana me ka emi ʻana o ke kaumaha no nā mākua a me nā keiki no ka mea e hoʻomaha maikaʻi lākou a mākaukau e hoʻomaka i ko lākou lā!
3. E nīnau i nā nīnau kūpono i ka manawa kūpono
I kekahi manawa, hopohopo nā mākua e ʻike pehea ka lā o kā lākou keiki i ko lākou hoʻi ʻana i ka home mai ke kula, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā pule mua. ʻO ia mau pule he luhi a piha i nā piʻi a me nā haʻahaʻa i ke aʻo ʻana o kāu keiki e hoʻokele i nā mea hou, hoa hou, kumu hou, a me nā manaʻolana hou. ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana iā lākou i ka manawa e hoʻi ai i ka home a me ka decompress he mea koʻikoʻi loa ia no ko lākou olakino a noʻonoʻo. I ka manawa i loaʻa ai iā lākou kekahi manawa "me"., hiki i nā mākua ke nīnau i nā nīnau kiko'ī e pili ana i kā lākou ʻike e hana nei lākou, ina ua ike lakou. Hiki iā lākou ke hele pū me lākou i ka diary haʻawina home a kā lākou keiki a kōkua iā lākou e hoʻolālā i ke ʻano o ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kēlā me kēia hana, me ke kaʻana like ʻana i ko lākou hoihoi no nā kumuhana kikoʻī, puke, a i ʻole ka ʻike a lākou e hauʻoli ai. E hōʻalo i ka nīnau, “Pehea ke kula? He aha kāu i aʻo ai?” ʻoiai ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka pane ʻana o nā keiki i nā nīnau kikoʻī, e like me, “He aha kāu i hana ai me kou mau hoa i ka ʻaina awakea? He aha ka mea maikaʻi loa o kou lā? He aha ka mea ʻē a maikaʻi loa i hana ʻia ma ke kula i kēia lā?” ʻO ka mea nui loa, pono nā mākua e hele a hoʻolohe pono i ka pane ʻana o nā haumāna, no laila, manaʻo maoli lākou i ka waiwai a lohe ke kaʻana like.
4. E aʻo iā lākou mai ka hāʻule ʻole
He mea paʻakikī loa kēia i nā mākua e ʻae. Makemake mākou e hana maikaʻi kā mākou mau keiki a hiki i ko lākou hiki piha, ʻo ia hoʻi, hiki iā mākou ke hele i kēlā me kēia haʻawina me kahi lei niho maikaʻi, ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kēlā me kēia helu kuhi hewa ʻole a i ʻole kuhi hewa. ʻOiai he mau manaʻo maikaʻi ko nā mākua ke hana mākou i kēia, ke lawe nei mākou i nā manawa aʻo koʻikoʻi mai nā keiki ke hana mākou pēlā. I ko mākou wā haumāna, ʻO ka nui o ko mākou mau mākua i hana pinepine a ʻaʻole i loaʻa ka ʻike a i ʻole hiki ke kōkua iā mākou i kā mākou hana kula, akā ua loaʻa iā mākou kahi ala e hoʻoikaika a hoʻāʻo i kā mākou maikaʻi loa. Inā ʻaʻole hāʻawi ʻia nā keiki i nā manawa e hāʻule ai i ko lākou wā ʻōpiopio, hiki paha iā lākou ke pale i ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā pilikia ma hope o ke ola no ka makaʻu o ka hāʻule ʻana iā lākou. Eia naʻe, ke hoʻokuʻu aku mākou iā lākou e hāʻule mālie, e like me ka hana a i ʻole ma kahi pāʻani pōpeku liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi, ke aʻo nei mākou iā lākou i ke kūpaʻa. ʻAʻole ia ka hopena o ka honua, a ua aʻo lākou i kahi haʻawina waiwai; hiki iā mākou ke hoʻāʻo a ʻaʻole e kūleʻa, lepo iā mākou iho, a ho'āʻo hou i ka manawa aʻe.
5. Hanai i ko lakou mau kuko
He manawa hoihoi nā makahiki kula hou no nā kumu he nui, ʻO kekahi o lākou e hāʻawi i nā keiki i kahi manawa e ʻike ai i nā makemake hou. Inā laki lākou, e hāʻule lākou i kahi mea a lākou e aloha maoli ai, a hiki iā lākou ke lilo i mea hoihoi e hoʻolimalima i nā hola ma ka ʻike hope. ʻAʻole maʻalahi ke kōkua ʻana i kahi keiki e ʻike i kona makemake. I kekahi manawa hopohopo nā mākua inā nānā nui kā lākou keiki i nā mea ʻelua, a manaʻo e pono lākou e hōʻike iā lākou i ka mea hiki ke kōkua i ka hoʻohālike ʻana iā lākou i poʻe poʻe maikaʻi. Eia naʻe, inā mākou e nānā i nā poʻe nāna i hoʻokumu i ko mākou honua, no ka mea he laser kā lākou i makemake nui ai. ʻO ia wale nō kā lākou i hana ai a i hana ai paha. E like me ke kanaka, ʻO kā mākou makemake nui loa, a ʻoiai e hāʻawi ana i kekahi ʻano waiwai ma luna o ka hoʻokō, e hoomau kakou i ka hahai ana. No laila, Mai hopohopo inā kūʻē kāu keiki i ka hele ʻana i kekahi hana i ka wā e holo ana i waho o ka puka e hele i kekahi. Malia paha ʻo ka mea a lākou i aloha ai ʻo ia ka mea waiwai nui i ko lākou ulu a ulu ʻana, a ʻo ka mea a lākou i makemake ʻole ai, ʻaʻole ia he pono.
Manaʻo mākou ua kōkua kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, a makemake mākou iā ʻoe a me kāu keiki i ka maikaʻi o ka makahiki kula e hiki mai ana! Hauʻoli mākou no ka makahiki kula hou a me nā pilikia a pau a me ka manaʻolana e lawe mai ana.
E hele pū ʻo Reach Out me ʻoe i kēlā me kēia pae o ke ala, no laila e makaʻala no ka ʻike hou aku a me nā ʻatikala hou aʻe mākou e manaʻo nei e aloha ʻoe!
